What often leads to inaction, and how to overcome it.
Did you know that the best-seller self-help book, “How To Win Friends and Influence People” was first published in 1936?
The author, Dale Carnegie, was clearly ahead of his time, or are we just slow learners?
One of my favourite quotes of his is:
“Inaction breeds doubt and fear. Action breeds confidence and courage. If you want to conquer fear, do not sit home and think about it. Go out and get busy.”
Do you ever consider the Opportunity Cost of your inaction?
If you were to add up the ‘cost’ of your inactive personal intentions, would it prompt you to act?
But first, what do I mean when I use the term ‘cost’?
Whether that be time, money, happiness, or status, the Opportunity Cost of your inaction is what you are missing out on because you are unable to commit to action.
I’m sure you have plenty of good reasons not to commit to an action – but if you truly understood the potential of your action perhaps you would ‘go out and get busy’.
And therein lies the problem – we look at potential through the lens of old perspectives.
So how do old perspectives lead to inaction?
Usually, these old perspectives are out-of-date. Not only are they based on assumptions that are no longer relevant, but the information is also second-hand or second-rate.
But interestingly, these old perspectives are never enough to erase your dreams, and you continue to see the same opportunities pass by like the house speciality on a Sunday’s Yum Cha trolley.
I see this to be particularly the case with peoples’ self-development.
Of course, there is an investment of time, money and capacity to profit from self-development.
As Carnegie succinctly states ‘action breeds confidence and courage’.
Start by looking at your future as the future, not discounted by the past and realize your true potential.
Written by: Craig Stephens
Craig is a coach and mentor who develops the purpose, presence and performance of professionals, teams and organizations.
Twitter: @craigvalue